It’s lonely up here -Akothee
Kenyan singer Esther Akoth has said that she misses life as a married woman and being taken care of by a man.
This was after a man (Kwena Kwesh) sent her a message saying that his wife had threatened to leave him several times and be independent like Madam Boss.
Akothee stated that she does not know how she got to where she is, but it was not easy for her. She noted that she escaped death thrice in the process.
The mother of five said she hopes the distressed man’s wife knows what she is doing because that road has stigma and rejection, adding that what worked for her (Akothee), may not work for the wife.
The Abebo singer did not forget to mention that if it was the man who was giving the wife a hard time, then it’s okay and when she leaves, she will experience a lot of downs before things straighten.
Madam Boss then stated that she did not leave her husbands, but one fell in love with another woman, the other wanted a baby and there was a lot of fighting with another, which was not good for her kids.
“I just found myself here, through the struggles of life, escaped death 3 times, I don’t even know what and how I did it, I never had a formula or strategy, I still miss a marriage life and being taken care of! It’s very sad to be strong because you still take care of people even while in bed, with very few asking how you are doing! It’s very lonely up here, there is no really real life, you don’t know who is real or fake, it only takes you heart break to learn! I wish your wife really knows what she is going for, the stigma upon single parenting is real, sabotage and rejection, before she walks out of that home , let her know that maybe what worked for me ,might not work for her ,let her organize her home and try make it there ,but If you are also giving her too much rubbish ,then I can’t tell her to leave, I will just tell her”
“when she leaves, she should get ready for all the takatakas of all kinds before she see some light, it’s all messed up kwa ground, I never left my husbands, Jared fell in love with another woman and left me! Papa Ojwang just wanted a child with no strings attached! I left papa Oyoo because the relationship was toxic and the fights were not good for both of us and the kids .but trust me I MISS TO BE SOMEONES WIFE, ENJOY IF YOU HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP not all that glitters is gold,” wrote Akothee.